Silly kids, tricks are for kids...

Hahaha with Halloween quickly approaching, I guess people are up for running games and playing tricks on people. Case in point a friend of mine(yes a real friend not I) has be hanging out with these guys. Real chill guys, the big brother type....or so she thought. She gets drunk at a party with them and then ends up making out w/ one of those guys...next thing you know rumors are flying that she has slept with the guy...when she tracks down the source it's none other than the guy...worst of it all she was so distraught by the situation that she approached the guy & friends to receive a males' opinion on what to do...boy was she hoodwinked, bamboozled, & led astray. She wouldn't have thought he was behind it all, even though they've known each other for only a year. She felt a little bad about making out w/ him because she didn't want to lead him on....however who really is to blame here? The young lady because she got so drunk she put herself in a stupid and compromising position and if the guy wasn't her "friend" it could have gone much further...or is it the guy who took advantage of a situation to the point of damaging not only a friendship but also a reputation...all these games we play with each other is so uncalled for...what purpose do they really serve? Are we truly benefiting ourselves? Is this what adulthood is all about?...since its cold in the Burg right now...I'm going to get a cup of hot chocolate and ponder these questions plus some calculus....smooches until next post laters

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